Be yourself, enjoy life….
"Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you've imagined." ― this remark of Henry David Thoreau guides us to live the life according to our wish and will. Have you ever tried to live as you had wished? Have you taken the opportunity in your hands ever? Mostly the answer from so many people is "No". How is it possible? How can it be possible? The answer is very simple; we always look for approval from others. Nonetheless, we are not confident and don't believe in ourselves. I would like to quote Michel's remarkable statement "I do not care so much what I am to others as I care what I am to myself. "As a reminder of this context.
The other possible reasons could be, we are brought-up by our parents, so we have to fulfil their dreams. We have a family, so we need to work for them and look after them. These excuses would clearly spell out your attitude and your way of leading the life. I'm sure, you will certainly meet your loved ones expectations and other responsibilities with great devotion. I'm sure again; you will miss the great opportunity to be yourself and live the life that you have always wished for. Please, don't misinterpret that I am suggesting you to throw out all your responsibilities and lead selfish life. It is in fact, our bounden duty to look after our dears who sacrificed their sweat and tears for our growth.
It is very simple to live the life the way you want along with your responsibilities if you have a blue-print beforehand. Define your goals and take the support of your family and well-wishers to shoot out your goal. Along the way, please don't lose any opportunity that will promote you to experience little amusements that are blessed by the nature such as Sun rise, songs of birds, whisperings of cool breeze etc. Remember the remark of Paula Cole" I think it is important to find the little things in everyday life that make you happy".
We always run for identity with our position but failed to create our own natural identity. Just look at the butterfly, a parrot; they aren't putting any extra effort to grab your attention. They are spontaneous and they are very much under their skin. So, my dear friends! Life meant not only for big targets but also for small pleasures. To enjoy them you need your own way of living and tremendous confidence. Let's go for it and enjoy life at most than leading robotically to remind ourselves always…we all are living beings. Robert Barult was so right " Enjoy the little things ,for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things"