Figure out your marital problems, Before it is everything forever or nothing Ever Again

Update: 2019-04-13 11:21 IST

What could be the problems in a marriage that would lead to divorce? It's not uncommon that couples start to fight and make up..fight and make up, until one day they fall apart for good. Don't neglect your relationship issues, you never know, the relationship could be threading towards rocky roads too!

Infidelity, lack of communication, Financial troubles, sparing sessions of sex and intimacy are some of the common reasons for divorce.

You know things are not going well for you and your spouse. Your partner did see the stern, aloof and resentful that last time you spoke to each other. Like always you expect them to come around, let go of the steam and become their normal self with time. Instead, one day, you come home to find their clothes missing from their cupboards and a piece of paper on the dinner table -a divorce notice.

Top Reasons for Divorce

1. Infidelity




 









Extra-marital affairs are responsible for the breakdown of most marriages that end in divorce. This is one of the most common causes of divorce. This is one of the most common causes of divorce. The reasons why people cheat aren't as cut and dry as our anger may lead us to believe.

2.Money




 









Money makes people funny, or so the saying goes, and it's true.

Everything from different spending habits and financial goals to one spouse making considerably more money than the other, causing a power struggle can strain a marriage to the breaking point. Money plays a major role in marriages, it impacts people's lives. Clearly, money and stress do seem to go hand in hand for many couples. Financial troubles can be categorized as one of the biggest causes of divorce, following infidelity, the number one of the reason for divorce.

3. Communication gap




 









Communication is crucial in marriages and not being able to communicate effectively quickly leads to resentment and frustration for both, impacting all aspects of a marriage.

On the other hand, good communication is the foundation of a strong marriage. Poor communication is one of the biggest reasons for divorce.

4. Constant Arguing




 









From bickering about chores to arguing about the kids; incessant arguing kills many relationships.

Couples who seem to keep having the same argument over again often do so because they feel they're not being heard or appreciated. Many find it hard to see the other person's point of view, which leads to a lot of arguments without ever coming to a resolution, which can ultimately be the cause of divorce.

5. Weight Gain




 









It may seem awfully superficial or unfair, but weight gain is one of the most common reasons for divorce.

6.Unrealistic expectations




 









It's easy to go into a marriage with lofty expectations; expecting your spouse and the marriage to live up your image of what they should be.

These expectations can put a lot of strain on the other person, leaving you feeling let down and setting your spouse up for failure. Wrong expectation setting can become one of the reasons for divorce.

7. Lack of Intimacy




 









Not feeling connected to your partner can quickly ruin a marriage because it leaves couples feeling as though they're living with a stranger or more like roommates than spouses.

This can be from a lack of physical or emotional intimacy and isn't always about sex. if you are constantly giving your spouse the cold shoulder, then know that over time it can become the ground for divorce. Ignoring your partner's sexual needs is being called the number one cause of divorce in recent times.

Making your relationship intimate and special is the responsibility of both partners. Practice little acts of kindness, appreciation and enjoy physical intimacy as much as possible to sweeten your relationship.

8. Lack of Equality





 


 








Lack of equality comes from closely behind the number one cause of divorce, lack of intimacy, in recent times.

When one partner feels that they take on more responsibility in the marriage, it can alter their view of the other person and lead to resentment.

Resentment often leads to divorce.

9. Abuse




 









Physical or mental abuse is a sad reality for some couples.

It doesn't always stem from the abuser being a bad person; deep emotional issues are usually to blame. Regardless of the reason, no one should tolerate abuse and be removing yourself from the relationship safely is important. 

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