In a marital bliss it is very important to share responsibilities

Update: 2018-03-25 20:39 IST

No more marriages are meant that women for women to stay at home, keep home and raise the children. The transition in social structures to two-income families had left that tradition behind a long time ago. With the burden of bringing home earnings falling on both shoulders, there is a need to share responsibilities to maintain the home and to raise the family as well. 

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Any marital home is based in trust that is based on trust and that is largely based on who holds power. To build a shared marriage, the key is to start from a place of equal respect for each other. Here are a few ways to create routes towards sharing responsibilities within marriage.

Equal authority: to remain successful and stable, married couples must necessarily share an equal level of authority. Opinions, decision making approaches and plans have to be shared and respected. 

Both the parties of the marriage should recognise each other. Both parties must treat each other with respect, entrenched firmly in the belief that both have a common right to share their opinions and make decisions that affect their home.

Include ...include Personal space is undoubtedly valuable and must be respected in so called marriage. It is important for your partner to be glued into all that you are doing and you, into all that they aredoing. 

Only when both are informed can there be any sense if sharing and pursuing commonalities in a way that fosters both of your advancement. Once should draw up boundaries if you need to withhold information on something, but be wise not to keep secrets.
One should hold each other accountable Responsibilities come with the caveat of having to measure up to an expectation. 

As a couple, itis vital to hold each other accountable to what is expected of each other. Never be a nag, and don’t be a cavalier or detached, either. 

Sharing the household tasks Housework is inherently either occasional or routine the former benign thing that crop up every now and then - repairs and paying bills for example the other end comprises the staple cooking cleaning, doing laundry, and washing dishes. These routine jobs are dull and tedious. Women do more than their share of house hold routine work.. if one makes a habit out of sharing responsibilities, it just flows naturally.

Appreciate often times household work goes unrecognised, unappreciated and unvalued and this leads to devaluation of the one that’s left doing all the work. So one partner gets the feeling of the short end of the stick. A good way to make your spouse feel valued is not to take them for granted, and appreciate all that they are doing for the household.

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