Dealing Sex with a bump how safe is it?

It can be overwhelming at first when dealing with sex when you are pregnant. But should life as you knew it come to a  grinding halt? What about girls nights out, wearing heels eating your favourite food? And what about sex? Mothers to be have sexual urges too. We asked some friendly doctors to answer the most common questions they get asked about sex from pregnant women and here’s what they had to say.

How safe is to have sex? 

Doctors say as long as there are no associated conditions like a low lying placenta infections of the cervix and vagina, an incompetent cervix or multiple pregnancies, it is safe to have sex during pregnancy. The most important factor is the comfort and readiness of the woman having said that. Every pregnancy is unique and we suggest you talk to your doctor before you get between the sheets.

Are you suppose to take any precautions?

Yes it is very important for the man to be gentle as the vagina are sensitive at this time. Many women also experience extreme sensitivity in their Nipples and breasts, so the women should take the lead and communicate for her. Some women bleed a bit after sex. While spotting is common so discuss with it with your doctor.

What positions are okay?

In the early weeks of pregnancy, a couple can try positions they are used to and comfortable with. When the bump starts to show it’s better to avoid missionary position. From the second trimester onwards the most comfortable position would be sideways or with the woman on top.

Is it ok to practice oral sex?

Yes doctors wave a green signal for this one. There should be no problem. Care should be taken not to blow any air into the vagina. Also if your partner has any viral infection it’s better to avoid sex until he has recovered.