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Is my love already married ? How can I know for sure? Please help..Mala Ahmedabad

Hi, I have fallen for my colleague who’s from another city. He’s handsome and charming, and when I played hard to get, he pursued me relentlessly. But after I said yes, his interest seems to have diminished. He’s always on the phone whenever we’re together and never talks in front of me. He also ogles at women when we go clubbing and is very jealous of my male friends. My friends suspect that he may be married. How can I know for sure? 

Why would you want to continue to be in a relationship with a jealous man who doesn’t seem interested in you. Ogles at other women and is someone you clearest are suspicious of and constantly upset with? Move on as fast as yesterday.