Why Sexting Is Good For You! Everyday life is more thrilling with foreplay at fingertips

We’ve all heard what technology alarmist say about sexting: that it’s shameful, deviant, exploitative, and just stupid. But in many ways, it’s a new genre of personalised erotica. Now, everyone is her own author and illustrator with the ability to create provocative, graphic stories for herself and her object of desire. 

Think of  sexting as the latest chapter in a long history of lovers living out their relationships through written correspondence. In the 40’s feminist Simone de Beauvoir wrote how she could actually feel her romantic scribblings physically writing to you is like kissing you, she wrote to her long distance love.
 
To sext is also to meet your partner in a portable erotic classroom a place where you communicate your needs and desires so by the time you’re in bed together, you know each other’s deepest fantasies without having to say a word. Our i messages give us a dream big and date to dream with another person.

Of course, trust is essential. You probably don’t want to engage in this kind of erotica with a guy who, shortly after exchanging numbers requests a picture of your t*ts or any idiot who sends you a snapchat of his penis after only a brief exchanges. Bad sexters are like bad lovers a huge disappointment. But they should turn you off to the act entirely.

Good Sexters know that the advantage to putting our thoughts into words is that we can stop, think, edit or erase.. we have time... and it’s often time, that’s the biggest turn on. 

Sexting Is A New Genre Of Erotica