why do guys show up at a bar with their whole crew? Don’t they know it’s intimidating when we want to talk to one of them?

Not to burst your bubble, but girls aren’t the only thing on a guys mind when he goes out. Men roll with their squad because they want to have a good night with one another, and they don’t always expect to pick up someone.

However, you can take control of the situation by approaching  the guy you’re into and saying hey id love to have a drink with you, but can we have it where it’s quite enough to talk?