The Alchemy of ExtraMarital Affairs

 Now a days Extra marital affairs have become very common and most of the women tend go into these affairs for very different reasons comapred than men.

There aee many reasons for infedility such as revenge, boredom, the thrill of sexual novelty, sexual addiction. But experts say that a large majority of the time, motivations differ by gender, with men searching for more sex or attention and women looking to fill an emotional void

On the data collected most of women tell ' I was lonely, not connected to the partner, I dint feel close to my partner, and i was taken for granted,' women expressed their feelings to the therepist that  they wanted to have someone who would look into their eyes and make them feel sexy again.

IN SEARCH OF AN EMOTIONAL CONNECTION

Every affair is different, and so are every woman's reasons for her involvement.

Men are more likely to cite sexual motivations for infedility and are less likely to fall in love with an extramarital partner. Women tend to have an emotional connection with their lover and are more likely to have an affair because of loneliness.

Women tend to be more unhappy with the relationship they are in, whereas men can be a lot happier in their primary relationship and also cheat. Women are more interested in supplementing their marriage or jumping ship than men are for men, it is a secondary strategy as opposed to an alternate.

sources found out as per data that 34% of women who had affairs were happy in their marriage. 56% of men who had affairs were happy in their marriage.

IS IT IN A WOMEN'S GENES?

The theory of adultery is very natural for men, fulfilling their Darwinian need to spread their seed, had been around a long time. But the connection women look for when having affairs may have evolutionary roots as well.

JUMPING SHIP

Women after divorce, living with a lot of disillusionment in a dissapointing, sexless marriage.

you feel the loss of your dreams and hopes and how you thought things would turn out,  you feel very lonely, you  could never understand the concept of being lonely in a marriage until it happened. one begins to flirt with other men to get attention, but she never considered having an affair. You get romantic after a business trip with a friend, and begins a long term relationship, a path she admits she was likely on pathway as her marriage dissolved.

Using another partner to transition out of bad marriage is one of the common reasons women have affairs.

when women are on a sinking ship they use extra marital affairs as a life raft to sail as they dont want jump into the cold water.

Some women have affairs during periods of vulnerability of life change, like when a child goes off to college or after a job loss. They may see it as a form if comfort during upheaval.

Another reason is when the women has a trouble some marriage. A therapy could be helpful to avoid going down the path.

Affairs with Intention

Women are also less likely than men to have an affair than just happens, because they tend to think longer and harder about the situation. Women are also less likely than men to have an affair that just happens because they tend to think longer and harder about the situation.