Care to give space to your partner

Understanding relationships is very tough. Sometimes there will be a need for intense care and togetherness and at other times you will have to give some space to the other person to indulge in himself.

Do not stick to your partner when he needs some private time Sometimes you can feel that your partner is yearning for some space. The best way to make it easy for the relationship is to take it in the positive sense. When your partner makes the request for having some private time or he gives signs of needing space, the right move is to withdraw from him.

It is natural that you feel broken and down when your partner pulls back and keeps a distance. But realize that this is not the time to accuse, be repulsive or to cling on to the person.

Focus on yourself when your partner needs space You may have plans about you two and try to be with him all the time. But, when your partner needs space, try to change your core attention to something you love to do. Go on a trip with friends, stay with family or spend time with children.

There would have been some small things in life which were important to you before the relationship happened. This is your time to indulge in such things and divert your concentration.

Understanding the meaning of "I need time alone" When your partner says that he/she needs some time alone or needs space, this does not mean the end of the relationship.

The message conveyed is not that he/she does not love you anymore. Everything needs air and space to grow and flourish and you have to know how to give someone space. Confined to a certain person or a situation and struggling with it is very difficult if proper space is not given at the right time. These words do not mean that you are rejected or abandoned.

Let him keep his own friends and hobbies Your partner will have his own friends, his interests, etc. It is always better to prevent an issue by giving your partner his segment of space so that the relationship runs smooth without bringing in the need to take a break.