Negative attitudes should be shunned

It is so disgusting to become aware of students falling as preys for simple reasons and throwing away the best opportunity to prove themselves in life. Of course, they have tasted failure academically from various reasons, but that failure shouldn't become their life end. It is very appropriate to recollect the words of Fennel Hudson "Exams test your memory, life test your learning and others will test your patience" .

My message is : So, don't give priority to others. In the odyssey of life you are projected to various challenges, no doubt you will adapt yourself to those in the due course of life. To become stronger towards just recall the words of Swami Vivekananda "Conquer yourself; and the whole universe will be yours"- Just notice the importance of these words and try to conquer yourself.

It seems strange to pay attention to these words as a question will arise what is there to conquer? Why should we conquer? What is the use if we conquer ourselves? Are you in a position to answer these queries? No problem...it is just beginning. No need to panic.

If you are able to peep through your mind you will identify it is a "can of worms". Further, your negative attitude occupies driver seat and your low self confidence levels will always pull back. These factors will always pull the rug when you are prepared to start work. The negative attitude will always haunt you by always creating the gloomy image of your future by prompting that you may taste failure in your endeavours.

It always pushes you to the other side instead promoting you to do your effort confidently. This will make us so ill to discharge our duties properly. To overcome this weakness, we have to remember that the positive mentality of a fish that never frightened by the depth of the sea and confidently swim all the way.

Your low self-confidence is another dangerous factor which will time and again provide a magnified image of the problem and makes you stranded. It is rightly remarked by Helen Keller that "Optimism is the faith that leads to the achievement .Nothing can be done without hope and confidence".

It is necessary for every individual to cultivate the quality to sense the actual magnitude of the problem and then try to find the salvation for it .For this everyone needs the quality of judgement and the quality of knowing their strengths which will propel them towards the problem solving. So, confidence is the only factor which will help one to creep to the top.

To build up confidence level, just imagine how the lion rules the other in forest irrespective of their number. Education and the life experiences should improve your confidence. Forget not, in life positive attitude and self-confidence will pave the way for success. So, try to conquer these two and be a conqueror of your life. It was an apt remark made by the Confucius "Our greatest glory is not in ever falling, but in rising every time we fall."