Why do we love people and miss them?

Now, according to a recent research and a scientific study, love is a chemical reaction generated inside our body within our brains which leads to many emotions like happiness, sadness, possessiveness, anxiety, arousal etc., It is nothing but a chemical reaction in our brains.

Now, coming to the point, why do we love somebody, as discussed above, chemical reaction’s effect doesn’t last long, it fades out immediately, but we still cling on to a person psyching ourselves that they’re the ones forever.

So why do we do that? Why do we cling on to one single person all the time? We go towards a person only because he offers entertainment and fun to us, (entertainment here doesn’t refer to its literal term, anything that offers enough stimulation to your brain is termed as entertainment in this context). A human being basically does things which always give him pleasure.

So, when we eventually get bored of our lives, we tend to sway towards another preson and thereby think or try of controlling their lives, or living it with them, or sharing their own lives with someone else. It’s all nothing but creating pleasure and satisfaction and ditching boredom from our own lives.

That is the primary belief which leads us in giving into another person’s life hoping that we’ll keep ourselves entertained. That is the reason why some people say that they got bored of their partners.

Now coming to the other point, ”why do we miss somebody”. We miss others because we’re bored with ourselves. We all say that we miss some people sometime or the other. We only miss them when we’re not enough occupied with work at our hands or only when there’s something lacking. When clearly we lack the pleasure someone else can give us, we will miss them.

But if we do something else which entertains us more instead, we will clearly not miss them. So there nothing that can really pull you down or keep you depressed all the time, you’ve just got to discover what stimulates you and gives you happiness and go for it.