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Harsh realities to know when you are in love with a control freak?
When you are in love with a person who always likes to be in control of things around him, you need to be prepared for what’s coming ahead of you.
When you are in love with a person who always likes to be in control of things around him, you need to be prepared for what’s coming ahead of you.
Here are few harsh realities that you are going to face!
In control of ‘everything’:
With a person who likes to be in a control, the environment around should be as good as it can get – nothing untidy, nothing out of line or place, neat and perfectly in sync.
However, if that is not the case, be prepared for the cranky attitude you will be subjected to.
Fashion Police Alert:
No matter what you fear, it never actually fits in the bill for a control freak who find issues with the attire until and unless you go by his/her choice.
Modern or classy – it won’t make a difference if your partner doesn’t live in peace of not having control on your choices.
No individual choice:
Control freaks never let you take the lead and if you did – it won’t end without a tussle. It’s not they are not appreciating your individualistic choice but according to them, it’s not right or not perfect in their head, so that’s where the problem arises.
Never ending amount of criticism is something comes by default for control freaks but not because they want to be mean but they want to get things done only in their way.
Order Anxiety:
In a belief to lessen their anxiety levels, a control freak always orders people and hands out instructions to control a situation but despite that, the anxiety never really reduces.
Insecurity:
Your lack of competence to match his skills is a major issue for a control freak as a partner because he/she may feel less due to that.
Vulnerability:
Being vulnerable summons to being weak in terms of a control freak who will do anything to avoid to come close to that possibility.
Meeting expectations:
How much ever efforts you put in, a compliment is never coming your way when you are in a relationship with a control freak. The controllers high standards are unmatchable hence you can never be good enough and the expectations to meet are impossible to meet.
