Be a GentleMAN

The world is changing and so are our requirements and desires. It’s time to say bye to the size of his biceps or the way he towers out in a group of guys. Those days of falling in ‘love’ with a guy over his physique are gone. It’s time to look at the other aspects that actually make him a loving and trustworthy partner.

Element of Humour – Nobody wants a silent, boring and monotonous date. Considering the emotional and hormonal imbalance we women go through certain days of the month, our primary requirement is a man who can make us laugh and forget all our worries and reduce our stress just for a certain period of time, till we get back on track. Laughing together increases the positive vibrations in the atmosphere and creates an energetic environment by releasing endorphins which automatically pleases the woman. This is why ‘Laughter is the best medicine’.

Give respect and take respect – Is he respected by his colleagues and friends? Does he respect his parents? Does he respect you, your likes and dislikes? Does he respect your parents as well as your friends? One of the most important qualities we search for in our partner. This is like an instant turn on for a woman. It talks a lot about his upbringing, family background and personality.

Good grooming – Ah! Everything comes down to this. No matter how much we try to ignore their physical attributes, it does strike us the moment we see them. From their hair, to their attire and whether it’s appropriate for the occasion to their colour combination as well as their shoes and if everything is in order or not.

Birds of a feather actually do flock together – No matter how much ever people say that opposites attract, similarity is what brings people together. Having the same likes and dislikes, hobbies, taste in music, movies and food,etc., makes a huge difference.

Against conformity – Men who stand out in the crowd and are assertive in nature about their own points of view automatically become attractive. This in turn shows that they are well read, confident and have a stance of their own instead of blindly following the majority.

A good conversationalist – Just like a good sense of humour, woman love spending time with men who make conversation and keep them engaged all throughout.

Ambitious – Don’t we all love men who have a good educational background from a reputed university, those who are hard working, have goals in life and have a good job? We cannot deny that this aspect plays a huge role in our selection of a ‘perfect’ partner

Emotionally stable – Apart from the man being emotionally stable, we also expect him to be loving, caring, empathic and compassionate towards us.

Saving vs Spending – A man who is cautious about his finances and plans for the future, is the kind of man our society needs today. With the changing economy and its fast paced growth, who knows what the future holds for us?

Priorities – All women, in fact everybody likes attention. If your man, removes time for you from his busy and hectic schedule and makes you feel like you’re the one, isn’t it a plus point? Most women will blindly agree to this point!!

Exercise your way to her heart – A man who is disciplined, works out, loves playing sports and thus keeps healthy is the secret to a woman’s heart.

‘A Gentleman seduces his lady’s mind before he even touches her body’ .

By: Ishita Lamba